The people we love sometimes make choices that are shocking to us, choices that we do not understand, choices that are not loving, maybe hurtful even. In those moments I remember this quote from Albus Dumbledore "It is our choices that show who we truly are, far more than our abilities." We are our actions far more than we are our words. How we choose to behave speaks much more loudly that what we say. And in all things I choose love, even and especially, when it is difficult to do.